I haven't been very happy lately.
I just feel like hubby and I never do anything. Because we don't. When he comes home from work he takes a nap - a very LONG nap - 4-5 hours worth, usually. Then he'll wake up and either play his Playstation or play Call of Duty online with one of his friends...while I'm sitting around doing nothing. And it sucks, because it's not like I have any friends here (yet) and I'm not working quite yet so it's not like I can really do anything.
Tonight we were actually supposed to go out for once, but of course he's still napping, at 2130...and chances are we probably won't go anywhere. I bet he'll wake up and play Call of Duty and I don't know, I'll just sit around and twiddle my thumbs or something. And I'll be extremely bored, because I took a cat nap earlier expecting to go out and now we probably won't. Fabulous.
We don't spend any time together. Maybe he thinks we do and our "time together" includes being in the same room together but I'm sick of him coming home, napping forever, playing his games and then going back to bed.
I kind of just want to leave and go take a drive somewhere...not really sure where I would go and it's kind of pointless for me to drive somewhere and then come back lol. I don't know. I'm just sick of being cooped up here and sick of being ignored. It shouldn't be like this.
I have another week off and then the following week I start my in-class orientation for a week. That weekend the hubby just so happens to have an extended weekend off, so I'm hoping that MAYBE we'll actually go somewhere instead of sitting in this damn apartment doing nothing.
I hope.
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I am sorry girl! I hate when that happens! I hope you guys do go out soon and spend some time together. Also good luck with your in class orientation, I hope it goes well.
ReplyDeleteI'm totally in the same boat right now. :(
ReplyDeleteHave you talked to him about it? Guys are stupid and don't pick up on these things. Tell him you want to go out especially before you start working and become extremely tired yourself! You need to figure it out now before you work nights because then your social life gets really tough.
ReplyDeleteThank you. @Erika, I hope that changes soon and you spend some time together!
ReplyDelete@Julie: yeah, I talked to him about it. He didn't realize it was making me upset lol. And I wasn't trying to tell him that he can NEVER come home from work and nap and relax, but it just gets old when that is all he does and we don't even do anything, not even be lazy and have cuddle time on the couch or something lol. But then he also realizes that since I'm not working (yet) and at the moment I don't really have any friends here, he knows that I look forward to him coming home after I sit around here all day. Regardless, it's better now :) And I've had experience working nights, but now it will be different being married and being on opposite schedules.